Q: I made something that made my boyfriend so upset,, I tried to make it up for him, and I told him I was sorry and that I didn't really mean to hurt him, He later said it was OK and he forgave me.. But deep inside of him he's still upset,, I mean he doesnt talk to me or touch me in the same way he used to ,, this tortures me ,, and I donno what to do to make it up for him ,,, Any ideas what to do? what would a man want his girlfriend to do if she made a mistake with him??
A: Hello local. I can see by the way you are vague with detail, your crafty. Often events as you describe them have their roots far into the past. What you label as the problem is in fact the trigger. The damage is now done, all you can do is grin and bare it. Learn to deal with problems and move on. Don't revisit them. Give him some flowers and step back. Let him settle down. Is he happy with the new Premier?