Q: I had Unprotected sex when i was 13 to 14, and i did it more than 10 times, ive also giving blowjobs too.. But im extremely healthy, i work out everyday, and eat only Healthy foods..(im all about being healthy) Im just wondering having that much unprotected sex could have given me aidsssss :(.. because ive heard that it wont show up in till a couple of years.. Which im really scared of :( And yes i know that was extremely stupied of me to have sex at that age and i totally agree with you.. Im 17 now, and im closeted and NO one knows im gay, im going to have to wait for the right time.. But anyways i had sex with my friend that LIVED in my neighberhood.. He was 16 (and i know he was wayyy older than i was, but he moved away).. I really want to know, was that REALLY bad, and if i ever have sex again in my life, im deff using a Condom lol :-/.. Did yall ever have sex at an early age???
A: If the sixteen year old boy was a virgin also, it would be no problem. Even if he stayed with guys his own age, it would probably be okay. And there is no problem with oral. But yeah, just in case of the remote possibility that you might have gotten anally infected, get tested for HIV at a community health clinic. Call or email PFLAG to find out how that might be arranged in a confidential and safe fashion. To know for certain would take a great load off your mind. Awww, you are not unusual, Aaron. You were a curious and loving boy, and probably enjoyed being with your buddy very much. When we share genuine love, it is good. Just get tested so there will not be a chance of you infecting anyone else. I did not have sex at an early age, though a nice Mormon boy tempted me with a sleepover at his house. As he murmured to me, "I don't wear pajamas". lol.